Does Asthma Affect Relationships?
Does asthma affect relationships? That is the question of the day. I would like to say it doesn't. But, based on my personal experiences, I have to say it does. Sometimes it affects them in good ways. But, sometimes it affects them in bad ways. So, now that I said this, an explanation is in order.
How does asthma affects relationships in good ways?
I was the second of six children. I think I'm closer to mom than any of us. Mom has said that to me many times. She says, "You and I have the best conversations. We click on just about every subject."
And, of course, while the guys were doing guy things, I had to stay home with mom. When dad and my brothers were gathering wood for the wood stove, I stayed home with mom. When dad and the guys went to hunting camp, I stayed home with mom.
So, it only makes sense that we grew close.
In this way, I think asthma can affect relationships in good ways.
How does asthma affect relationships in bad ways?
Sure, the goal of an asthma management plan is to live normal lives with asthma. We try. We often say we do. But, truth be told, there are still things we cannot do. We must, for all practical purposes, avoid our asthma triggers. Mine are dust mites, mold spores, and pollen. I have severe allergies to each.
So, like, I really shouldn't be doing any deep house cleaning. Dust mites are in closets, in boxes, basements, and under beds. So, when I clean in these spaces, sniffles, sneezes, and wheezes are soon to follow. These are usually followed by a few puffs of my inhaler. It may involve a nebulizer breathing treatment. It may involve days of me recovering.
So, like, I really shouldn't be mowing the lawn either. Think of all the allergens that are inhaled when you do this chore. This causes sniffles, sneezes, and wheezes. Puffs on the old inhaler usually follow. The humming of a nebulizer may be heard by all in the vicinity of the asthmatic.
Sometimes I say, "I'm not doing that again." Yet, next time the job needs to be done, it's me who does it again. And no one stops me. Yeah! Like, why is this? It can be kind of frustrating if you're the asthmatic.
So, what to make of this?
I personally cannot deny that asthma affects relationships. Sometimes, this impact is negative. It can cause frustration. And, trust me, this is no criticism of anyone. It's just a natural phenomenon. Asthma is an invisible illness. If you don't have it, you cannot fathom what it's like. Even if you see the asthmatic suffer, if you don't have it, you forget. It's just the way it is.
Thankfully, the impact of asthma is usually positive on relationships. This disease is why I'm a respiratory therapist and writer for this site. So, in this way, it has introduced me to many people, some of which have evolved into great, long-lasting friendships.
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