Don’t Pick on the Asthmatic! Or Why Awareness Is Important
I had (still do) horrible allergies to outdoor allergens. I’m severely allergic to molds, dust mites, and pollens. So, this caused my nose to itch and run a lot. So, you can imagine I had a snotty nose. I was always wiping it. Sorry, what else do you do? And back then, back in the 70s, there wasn’t much in the line of allergy medicine. So, like a cold, you just dealt with it.
My eyes itched too. So, when I was, like, eight, you can imagine a snotty-faced kid. His face would probably be dirty. Maybe. His eyes were red due to the allergies. You might see him also rubbing his eyes. He also coughed a lot. You get the picture.
His shoulders were hunched. He didn’t run with the other kids. At least this is how it was during pollen seasons. Or, it’s how it was during cold and flu season — if he went to school at all. And he usually did, because he had four brothers and was a tough kid.
One of the kids who picked on me became a good friend of mine years later. I worked with her at A&W when we were both 19. She said, “If I had known you were so sick, I never would have done that.”
We kind of just laughed it off. It’s what you do. You move on. In a way, it made me a better person. It gave me thick skin. That’s something that might come in handy in school in today’s socially insensitive society.
So, fast forward 30 years.
I’m working on a code. I’m managing some person’s airway. My hands are shaking because I was trialing this new medicine called Breo. It was once called Super Advair because it only needs to be taken once a day instead of twice. It worked great for controlling my asthma.
But, it made me shaky. It made me feel nervous. It made me feel jittery. And I was so happy with the results of better asthma control. I was also happy because Breo was free for that year. I went to the website and filled out that coupon. So, I was happy with Breo.
That is, until the doctor, after the code when we were all standing around debriefing, said, “Are you going through detox?”
I know he was joking. I can handle a joke. But, his quip did get me to thinking. And within a month I was at my doctor’s appointment. And I told him I can’t take Breo anymore because of these side effects.
Still, if it wasn’t for judges, I’d probably be satisfied with Breo. It’s just that it makes me look “doubly” nervous in stressful situations. And I don’t like that. So, I’m probably going to stay on Advair for a while.
Now, I don’t know why Advair has fewer side effects for me. It’s probably because it is slower acting. It opens airways slower, and so has milder side effects. It’s dry powder inhaler, but so too is Breo. So, that probably has nothing to do with it.
Regardless, I quit taking Breo because of the judges. So, even in adulthood, we nerds get picked on sometimes. Now, even though it was a lighthearted jab by a doctor I really like, it still made me aware of a flaw. It kind of reminds me of the old saying: “Words Mean Things!”
The unseen illness
I know asthma is an invisible illness. Like, the kid with the broken leg has a cast. He gets all the attention. The asthmatic (me) has an unseen illness. You can’t see it. You can see the symptoms. You can see the snotty nose. You can see the red eyes. You can hear the coughing.
But, there is no Scarlet Letter “A” on the forehead that says, “I have asthma. Give me the respect I deserve.” I do now. I mean, I write about it. I talk openly about my asthma now. Still, most people don’t. This is especially true of kids. So, they should be respected and treated as equals.
So, I think this is where asthma awareness comes in handy. I think the more that is known about our disease, the more understanding people will become. Do you have a story about being teased about asthma? Hopefully not! But, if you do, feel free to share in the comments below.