Hi - and thanks for sharing your present situation managing this disease (asthma), with the community.
You may find that some physicians are more well versed in the diagnosis, management and treatment of asthma than others. If you feel the doctor(s) who provide your medical care are not doing the right thing by you, would you consider seeking out another physician?
To your point about about wheezing, you are, no doubt, aware that asthma affects everyone differently. As well, not all asthmatics experience wheezing.
I thought you might gain some additional insight from these two articles:
First, this one, which speaks to the different types of asthma: https://asthma.net/living/asthma-not-one-size-fits-disease.
And next, this material which addresses asthma and wheezing: https://asthma.net/living/wheezing.
I do hope you find the information is helpful in a practical way.
Wishing you well,
Leon L (author/moderator asthma.net)